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Actor Stephen Collins’ second wife thinks her husband is a “sociopath,” according to e-mails obtained by multiple news outlets reports The New York Post. Faye Grant sent an e-mail in 2012 to a woman Collins allegedly molested as a child, saying she made the “7th Heaven” star go to therapy, according to Gawker.

“I knew Stephen was a narcissist,” she wrote in the e-mail. “I did not know he was a pedophile.”

She said Collins, who played a pastor and loving father on the show, “is not remorseful, shows no guilt, and his shame is demonstrated as extreme self pity.”

The couple is embroiled in a nasty divorce, set to go to trial on Nov. 12.